Outer beauty. What do most people think about when you ask them what makes a girl or guy beautiful/ handsome? For a guy, well he has to have nice hair, nice facial features, dress nicely, look fit and have a slick charm. When asked about good looking male celebrities, many girls used Chaning Tatum, Zac Efron and Nick Jonas as examples. What about girls? Oh boy. I'm not trying to make it seem like a big struggle but girls don't have it that easy. With everything circulating the internet about a girl's ideal body and face, many girls face the burden of "perfecting" themselves. One of the most iconic examples of today's "perfect" women are Kim Kardashian, Beyonce , Jennifer Lopez and now Kylie Jenner. Many praise their looks and wish they could also look like them.I'm going to point fingers to a lot of modern- day rappers and guys... they like to reinforce that thought. They praise women who have big curves, and an artificial face. No, not all guys are like that, I'm acknowledging that too, shoutout to you guys that aren't like that :).
But these are facts of today's world. Girls now tend to cover their face with makeup , contouring and attempting to make their face look different. They even go to the extent of getting surgery done. Before I go further, I would like to also say that yes, some girls do these things to feel good about themselves and not for others. I'm not shaming those people. I'm reaching out to the people who do these things to impress people around them. Okay, so once these girls transform themselves all of a sudden all these guys are on them and they gain their self- esteem from that. Girls, you don't have to stoop down to that level. You don't have to wait for a guy to call you beautiful or hot to feel good about yourself. You can't always wait around to get compliments. You need to tell yourself that YOU are beautiful and that NO ONE can tell you otherwise. This is where I come in with the inner beauty stuff. Beauty comes from the inside. I'm sure we've all heard that before. But have you actually listened and understood those words?